now this is funny..

11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably yawns

bad example ============

gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??

guy: yeah, tired from work...

gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah

guy: ok, you have an early nite too..

guy hangs up the phone. 5 min later, phone rings awaken by the phone rings,

guy: hello?

gal: .............

guy: who's this?

gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?

guy (confused): huh? what?

gal: .............

guy: why? what happened?

gal: you find me very bothersome is it?

guy: bothersome? why you said this??

gal: ..............

guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?

gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep...

guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep...

gal: you already said want to sleep already, what else u want me to say?

guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?

gal: since when i'm unhappy?

guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that do?

gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not because afraid that i will be unhappy...

in the end, guy spend some time comforting gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep. what worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.

good example ============

gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?

guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but you have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.

gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then

(still sounding out) never fall into the trap and hang up the phone

guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and offer make up measure)

gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.

gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this

guy: so what time you are going to sleep?

gal: not sure, probably a bit later.

guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one hor...

gal (feeling loved): ok lah...

guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)

gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)

guy: ehmm...

gal hang up the phone

in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call from gal the next day...

conclusion 1: female wants feeling and care. most of the time, female's logic cannot be figure out with a reasoning mind.

conclusion 2: say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more than ½hr of precious time

conclusion 3: when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up the phone first. else it will be disastrous...

conclusion 4: if your gf isn't like the one in the example, then congrats to u! treasure her! but if otherwise, dun accuse her of being unreasonable. what she wants is very simple..